Karma & Diamonds

Here are the 4 BIGGEST signs a man has a soul tie to you ❤️‍🩹 #relationshiptips #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #datingtips #datingadvice #relationshipproblems #soulties

People who benefit from your overgiving will always call your needs “too much.” They prefer you tired, confused and trying harder because it keeps the relationship on their terms. The moment you ask for steadiness of behaviour, care or accountability, you’re suddenly “demanding.” ㅤ #selfworth #relationshippatterns #boundaries #healing

I respect everyone’s sexuality. Fully. Still, when someone marries a person they aren’t actually attracted to, often because they’re confused or trying to “do the right thing,” it can slowly become a painful place for the spouse. This is because he is not really there. (If you’re a man and this resonates with your experience, please replace “he” with “she”. Here are some quiet signs many women feel but struggle to put into words: 1️⃣ Kind, respectful, still emotionally absent He does the “right” things. He’s polite and helpful. Still, he doesn’t meet her emotionally. 2️⃣ She carries the relationship She plans, decides, initiates and holds the emotional load. Over time, she stops feeling like a partner and starts feeling like the one running everything. 3️⃣ Intimacy feels disconnected Though there’s touch and affection, desire is missing. She starts to sense that she’s been chosen for stability or image - not because he truly wants her. That can slowly erode her confidence. 4️⃣ He can’t stay steady when she’s upset When she’s anxious, he mirrors her anxiety. When she’s overwhelmed, he shuts down. She doesn’t feel supported and feels like she has to manage both him as well as herself. 5️⃣ He avoids hard conversations Tension makes him retreat. She learns that saying how she feels creates distance so she stops speaking about her feelings. 6️⃣ She feels lonely beside him Nothing looks “wrong” on the surface. Still, something essential is missing and she knows it. If this resonated, you’re not alone. Share in the comments if you want to, or follow to stay close to this space.

5 ways a narcissistic mother dismantles her own family: 1️⃣ She turns people against each other. She tells one person one story and another person a different one. She plays favourites, repeats private, 1-2-1 conversations and stirs tension so people stop trusting each other. The family ends up divided, and she stays in the centre of it. 2️⃣ She makes everything about herself. If someone’s upset, she becomes the most upset. If someone’s happy, she finds a way to criticise it or ruin the moment. Her needs come first even when someone else is tired, sick or struggling. Everyone learns to keep things quiet to avoid drama. 3️⃣ She controls with fear and guilt. She uses lines like “After everything I’ve done for you” or “You’ve ruined my life” to get her way. She may cry, rage or withdraw until people give in. Over time, the family starts living around her moods. 4️⃣ She lies and rewrites what happened. She denies things she said, changes the story or insists you’re remembering it wrong. When you challenge her, she turns it back on you and makes it your fault. People start doubting themselves and stop speaking up because it feels pointless. 5️⃣ She wears down people’s confidence. She calls others selfish, lazy, ungrateful or too sensitive. Kids and partners start believing they’re the problem. Little by little, their self-trust drops and they start shrinking themselves just to cope.

If you were raised around guilt, you probably learned that saying no was “mean.” You learned to over-explain, overcompensate and keep the peace. That guilty feeling for saying “no” doesn’t mean you’re doing something selfish or wrong. It often means you’re doing something new. Something you haven’t yet fully rewired so that it becomes natural to take care of yourself. ㅤ #boundaries #peoplepleasing #innerchildhealing #selfrespect

This is one of the truest signs of emotional intelligence… do you agree? #emotionalintelligence #empath #boundaries #personalgrowth

The most exhausting dynamic is being pulled close and pushed away at the same time. They keep contacting you, checking on you, hovering or provoking you … refusing to change the behaviour that’s hurting you. ㅤ #toxicrelationships #emotionalabuse #nocontact #healingjourney

❤️ #spirituality #conciousness #loveyourself #abundance #jaybirdburger

Consistency in relationships is the bare minimum, not a prize you earn. When someone keeps switching up, pulling you close, then disappearing, it’s not your job to become “better” so they’ll finally choose you. Growth is choosing to honour yourself, perhaps by distancing, when the pattern costs you your peace. ㅤ #selfworth #datingadvice #healingjourney #relationshippatterns

Here are 5 ways a narcissistic mother treats her daughter: 1️⃣ She dismisses your emotions. If you cry, she says you’re too sensitive. If you speak up, she calls you rude or disrespectful. Instead of comforting you, she criticises you. You learn that your feelings are a problem rather than something that deserves to be treated with tenderness. 2️⃣ She competes with you instead of supporting you. When something good happens to you, she minimises it or shifts the focus back to herself. Your achievements don’t feel celebrated, they feel like an inconvenience. Over time, you start downplaying yourself, sharing less and sometime you might even question whether it’s okay to feel proud of your achievements. 3️⃣ She uses guilt to keep control. She reminds you of everything she’s done for you even when you didn’t ask. When you set boundaries, you’re called selfish or ungrateful. She may say you’ve changed or that you’re “breaking up the family” when you try to live your own life. 4️⃣ She becomes the victim when you raise an issue. When you try to talk about something that hurt you, she cries, gets angry or goes silent. You end up apologising for bringing it up. She rewrites what happened so she doesn’t have to take responsibility. In the end, you’re left doubting your own memory. 5️⃣ She doesn’t treat you as a separate person. Your choices, appearance and feelings are expected to reflect well on her. You weren’t encouraged to discover who you are, you were shaped to fit what she needed. When you step outside that role, you’re met with criticism, distance or shame. If this feels familiar, you’re not imagining it. This isn’t “just how mums are.” It’s a pattern and it has tremendous impact on you. #narcissisticparent #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabuserecovery #motherwound #motherwoundhealing #narcsurvivor #narcawareness

You don’t win by exposing a narcissist… This is how you win. #narcissism #toxicrelationships #emotionalintelligence #boundaries #relationships #friendships

When someone’s been using you as a source of attention, they don’t feel “loss” the way you do. They feel the loss of control. That’s why they pop back up when you go quiet, move on or stop reacting. They’re trying to reopen the door, not rebuild a real connection. ㅤ #narcissisticabuse #healingjourney #boundaries #emotionalabuse